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would be difficult not to agree that the above is an impressive resume
by anyone’s standards and looking
at where James-Michael is today, it is hard to imagine that he had to
endure bullying, sexual abuse and the non-acceptance of his peers earlier
on in his life. James-Michael insists that the only way anyone can pull
themselves out of a similar situation is “To
have guts, to believe, to have a goal…It’s so important to
have faith in yourself”. Indeed, he believes that following
a goal to its realisation or simply finding one to follow is the fundamental
basis to a fulfilling life. He explains this best in his own words:
“The most beautiful
thing in your life, when you have found the goal, when you have lived
for the goal, is when life allows the goal to manifest itself”.
In the
pursuance of his goals James-Michael has had two role models that he
has continuously looked-up to in order to give him the strength to go
on. The first is Martin Luther King Jr., because of his courage in repeatedly
speaking-out for the equal rights of African Americans in the face of
adversity. The second is Princess Diana because of her acts of compassion
and genuine love. He says that the lesson he learned from his two role
models was to speak-out against injustice:
“As
long as there are people out there who think that I am lesser than them
because I am not heterosexual, I will be outspoken…You have to
try to make a difference”.
James-Michael
realises his importance as a role model to gay teenagers in his hometown
and the world over. This is one of the main reasons that since 1990
he has participated, promoted and fully supported participation in GLBT
sporting events. He sees it as a way to encourage self-esteem amongst
homosexual teenagers who are statistically proven seventeen times more
likely to commit suicide than their heterosexual counterparts. He would
however like to point out that GLBT sporting events are usually open
to everyone and are an invitation to the straight community to compete
together with gays on a local and international stage. James-Michael
believes that in order to overcome your own personal demons you have
to build self-esteem. He chose sports as a way to overcome this. To
this day James-Michael continues to promote physical fitness, health,
nutrition and sport in the gay & lesbian community as a way to a
better life.
Ask James-Michael about his goals for the future
and he will immediately mention two things very close to his heart:
- To
win another bodybuilding medal at a GLBT international sporting event.
- To
publicly support, challenge and encourage participation at a GLBT international
sporting event.
James-Michael
has never forgotten his roots and is adamant to promote Montreal, his
hometown.
“It is my opinion
that the Quebecois are probably the most progressive people in the world
when it comes to tolerance and the acceptance of other people’s
lifestyles and cultures”.
James-Michael would like people to use his site
not only as a means of keeping up to date with his life but moreover
as a resource for getting to know Montreal and its Gay and Lesbian community
better. He is determined to spread the word that in Montreal, “We’ve
got it going on!”.
James-Michael Lavigne: an extraordinary athlete
and an extraordinary man.
written by Christopher
James Martin
Italy & UK
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